After some experience you become an adult?

After some experience you become an adult?
People are growing up experiencing trials of various kinds. There are failures in some way.Even people deceived from the people close to him.Sometimes not knowing about anything will become a member of some, say, "project", which is planned against him.Or someone overly does good deeds, and it turns out he and authority minus.There are happy and unhappy days.Sometimes success and failure.There are winners and losers. When all this begins to understand,to understand what was going on, then will feel that he is growing up, becoming an individual.In short, there is no single answer to this question.Everyone has to go through all this.
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